I think that I have trouble wiping my own bottom. I think I am scared or even too much ashamed. I thought to hire someone else, but I am not sure.
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Adult Peeing Accidents and/or Bedwetting
Have you had a pee your pants accident or pee the bed accident as an adult & how do you cope or fell afterward
Are you male or female?
| male | 53.0% (173) | |
| female | 42.0% (139) | |
| prefer not to say | 3.0% (12) |
324 voters answered this question.
What is your age range?
| Under 18 (this poll is not for you) | 4.0% (15) | |
| 18-25 | 51.0% (170) | |
| 25-35 | 20.0% (68) | |
| 35-45 | 11.0% (39) | |
| 45-55 | 7.0% (26) | |
| over 55 | 4.0% (14) |
332 voters answered this question.
Have you had a bedwetting accident as an adult?
| yes | 79.0% (264) | |
| no | 18.0% (60) | |
| prefer not to answer | 2.0% (7) |
331 voters answered this question.
Do you still wet the bed on occasion?
| yes | 68.0% (222) | |
| no | 28.0% (91) | |
| prefer not to say | 3.0% (12) |
325 voters answered this question.
When was the last time you peed the bed?
| last night | 51.0% (167) | |
| last week | 12.0% (41) | |
| last month | 9.0% (32) | |
| last year | 8.0% (27) | |
| more than a year ago | 10.0% (33) | |
| never | 7.0% (26) |
326 voters answered this question.
Why did you pee the bed?
click all that apply
| I sleep too deep & can't help it. | 42.0% (128) | |
| I dreamt that I was on the toilet. | 40.0% (121) | |
| It was a strange bed & I couldn't help it. | 6.0% (19) | |
| Medical condition. | 8.0% (24) | |
| I tried to stop but couldn't. | 28.0% (84) | |
| Sexual fetish. | 28.0% (86) |
298 voters answered this question.
How did you feel when you woke up?
answer as many as needed
| ashamed | 47.0% (143) | |
| afraid | 17.0% (53) | |
| angry | 16.0% (50) | |
| didn't care | 22.0% (68) | |
| happy | 28.0% (85) | |
| other | 21.0% (64) |
300 voters answered this question.
Did anyone else know about it?
if so who?
| yes | 37.0% (114) | |
| no | 39.0% (120) | |
| wife/husband/significant other | 36.0% (110) | |
| parent or guardian | 12.0% (39) | |
| brother or sister | 11.0% (34) | |
| work mate | 3.0% (11) | |
| room mate | 7.0% (23) | |
| friend | 17.0% (54) | |
| stranger | 3.0% (12) | |
| hotel staff | 7.0% (24) | |
| other | 7.0% (22) |
304 voters answered this question.
Are you afraid it will happen again?
| yes | 63.0% (193) | |
| no | 36.0% (110) |
303 voters answered this question.
Are you taking steps to remedy this?
if so what?
| yes | 20.0% (62) | |
| no | 53.0% (159) | |
| waking up through the night | 7.0% (22) | |
| bedwetting alarms | 3.0% (9) | |
| getting someone else to wake you up | 2.0% (8) | |
| going to bathroom before bed | 19.0% (57) | |
| drinking less liquids | 11.0% (35) | |
| wearing diaper | 26.0% (78) | |
| plastic/rubber sheets on bed | 12.0% (38) | |
| seeing Doctor | 4.0% (12) |
298 voters answered this question.
Do you still occasionally pee your pants?
| yes | 69.0% (221) | |
| no | 27.0% (89) | |
| prefer not to say | 2.0% (8) |
318 voters answered this question.
When was the last time you peed your pants?
| today | 33.0% (103) | |
| yesterday | 14.0% (44) | |
| last week | 15.0% (48) | |
| last month | 9.0% (29) | |
| last year | 4.0% (15) | |
| more than a year ago | 15.0% (48) | |
| prefer not to say | 7.0% (23) |
310 voters answered this question.
Where did you last pee your pants?
| in bathroom but didn't make it in time | 12.0% (36) | |
| outside the home trying yo get in | 5.0% (16) | |
| at home | 25.0% (76) | |
| at work | 2.0% (8) | |
| at school or training seminar | 4.0% (13) | |
| in the car | 7.0% (22) | |
| on the bus | 2.0% (7) | |
| on the subway | 0.0% (1) | |
| on the train | 1.0% (3) | |
| on a plane | 0.0% (1) | |
| on a boat | 0.0% (0) | |
| on a bike | 0.0% (2) | |
| in a mall | 5.0% (17) | |
| in a store | 2.0% (7) | |
| in a restaurant | 0.0% (0) | |
| at the post office | 0.0% (0) | |
| at church | 1.0% (4) | |
| at the doctors | 0.0% (1) | |
| at hospital | 0.0% (1) | |
| in custody (jail, back of police car etc) | 0.0% (0) | |
| in court | 0.0% (0) | |
| at a friend's house | 3.0% (11) | |
| a a family member's house | 0.0% (2) | |
| at a bosses home | 1.0% (4) | |
| on an amusement ride | 1.0% (5) | |
| on the street | 4.0% (13) | |
| in a pub or bar | 1.0% (3) | |
| other | 7.0% (21) | |
| prefer not to say | 7.0% (21) |
295 voters answered this question.
Why did you last pee your pants?
click all that apply
| couldn't hold it | 52.0% (152) | |
| medical condition | 4.0% (14) | |
| waited too long | 35.0% (104) | |
| was too engrossed in what I was doing to realize | 13.0% (39) | |
| no bathroom close by | 20.0% (59) | |
| tickled | 10.0% (32) | |
| surpised | 8.0% (24) | |
| scared | 6.0% (20) | |
| pain | 4.0% (14) | |
| symapthy pee because some else had an accident too | 6.0% (20) | |
| too drunk to notice | 6.0% (18) | |
| sick | 2.0% (8) | |
| sneezed | 7.0% (22) | |
| pregnant | 2.0% (8) | |
| allergic reaction | 1.0% (5) | |
| sexual fetish | 29.0% (86) | |
| other | 18.0% (54) | |
| prefer not to say | 6.0% (19) |
292 voters answered this question.
What did you do before peeing your pants?
click all that apply
| look frantically for a bathroom | 18.0% (53) | |
| scream for help | 2.0% (8) | |
| jump up and down (aka pee-pee dance) | 16.0% (48) | |
| start to remove clothing | 12.0% (35) | |
| hold yourself in your private area | 37.0% (109) | |
| nothing | 21.0% (63) | |
| know you were about to pee your pants | 48.0% (141) | |
| sit down & wait for the inevitable | 22.0% (66) | |
| scream in frustration | 2.0% (7) | |
| cry | 5.0% (15) | |
| other | 20.0% (60) | |
| prefer not to say | 5.0% (16) |
288 voters answered this question.
What did you do while peeing in your pants?
click all that apply
| look frantically for a bathroom | 14.0% (40) | |
| scream for help | 2.0% (7) | |
| try to stop the flow | 35.0% (100) | |
| start to remove clothing | 8.0% (25) | |
| hold yourself in your private area | 31.0% (89) | |
| nothing | 26.0% (73) | |
| scream in frustration | 2.0% (8) | |
| cry | 6.0% (18) | |
| let everyone around you know by declaring it | 6.0% (18) | |
| other | 16.0% (45) | |
| prefer not to say | 5.0% (15) | |
| poop your pants as well | 20.0% (56) |
279 voters answered this question.
What did you do after peeing your pants?
click all that apply
| look frantically for a bathroom | 15.0% (43) | |
| scream for help | 1.0% (4) | |
| run and hide | 10.0% (30) | |
| start to remove clothing | 21.0% (60) | |
| hold yourself in your private area | 20.0% (56) | |
| nothing | 25.0% (70) | |
| poop your pants | 21.0% (60) | |
| scream in frustration | 2.0% (8) | |
| cry | 6.0% (19) | |
| other | 20.0% (56) | |
| prefer not to say | 5.0% (14) |
276 voters answered this question.
How often have you peed your pants?
| never | 7.0% (23) | |
| once | 3.0% (10) | |
| twice | 5.0% (16) | |
| three times | 4.0% (12) | |
| four times | 1.0% (5) | |
| five times | 2.0% (8) | |
| more than five times but less than ten times | 9.0% (29) | |
| 10-20 times | 9.0% (28) | |
| 20-50 times | 6.0% (20) | |
| hundreds of times | 9.0% (28) | |
| too many to count | 36.0% (107) | |
| prefer not to say | 3.0% (11) |
297 voters answered this question.
Many adults who have had pee accidents have also had accidents during childhood & adolescence. If you can remeber the ages that you peed your pants please check as many ages as applicable
| 5 | 52.0% (146) | |
| 6 | 47.0% (132) | |
| 7 | 44.0% (124) | |
| 8 | 42.0% (118) | |
| 9 | 41.0% (114) | |
| 10 | 43.0% (120) | |
| 11 | 42.0% (119) | |
| 12 | 41.0% (115) | |
| 13 | 42.0% (118) | |
| 14 | 42.0% (119) | |
| 15 | 42.0% (118) | |
| 16 | 38.0% (107) | |
| 17 | 38.0% (106) | |
| 18 | 37.0% (104) | |
| 19 | 33.0% (94) | |
| 20 | 27.0% (76) | |
| 21 | 25.0% (72) | |
| 22 | 25.0% (72) | |
| 23 | 22.0% (61) | |
| 24 | 19.0% (55) | |
| 25 | 17.0% (48) | |
| 26 | 11.0% (33) | |
| 27 | 10.0% (30) | |
| 28 | 8.0% (24) | |
| 29 | 9.0% (26) | |
| 30 | 10.0% (28) | |
| 31 | 8.0% (24) | |
| 32 | 7.0% (21) | |
| 33 | 7.0% (21) | |
| 34 | 6.0% (19) | |
| 35 | 6.0% (19) | |
| 36 | 6.0% (19) | |
| 37 | 5.0% (14) | |
| 38 | 5.0% (14) | |
| 39 | 5.0% (15) | |
| 40 | 6.0% (17) | |
| 41 | 5.0% (16) | |
| 42 | 5.0% (15) | |
| 43 | 5.0% (15) | |
| 44 | 5.0% (14) | |
| 45 | 4.0% (13) | |
| 45+ | 8.0% (23) | |
| never | 5.0% (15) | |
| prefer not to say | 5.0% (16) |
277 voters answered this question.
If you have had accidents in the past, where did they occur?
click as many as apply
| in bathroom but didn't make it in time | 46.0% (127) | |
| outside the home trying to get in | 37.0% (102) | |
| at home | 58.0% (158) | |
| at work | 25.0% (69) | |
| at school or training seminar | 36.0% (100) | |
| while being punished as a child | 18.0% (51) | |
| in the car | 48.0% (131) | |
| on the bus | 25.0% (70) | |
| on the subway | 16.0% (44) | |
| on the train | 16.0% (45) | |
| on a plane | 17.0% (48) | |
| on a boat | 15.0% (41) | |
| on a bike | 21.0% (59) | |
| in a mall | 30.0% (83) | |
| in a store | 31.0% (85) | |
| in a restaurant | 23.0% (65) | |
| at the post office | 10.0% (29) | |
| at church | 15.0% (42) | |
| at the doctors | 15.0% (42) | |
| at hospital | 14.0% (40) | |
| in custody (jail, back of police car etc) | 4.0% (11) | |
| in court | 5.0% (16) | |
| at a friend's house | 37.0% (103) | |
| a a family member's house | 25.0% (69) | |
| at a bosses home | 10.0% (29) | |
| on an amusement ride | 24.0% (67) | |
| on the street | 31.0% (87) | |
| in a pub or bar | 18.0% (51) | |
| other | 22.0% (62) | |
| prefer not to say | 5.0% (14) |
272 voters answered this question.
Will you seek help?
how?
| yes | 18.0% (54) | |
| no | 40.0% (120) | |
| doctor | 10.0% (30) | |
| diapers | 29.0% (86) | |
| help is not needed as this was accident | 13.0% (41) | |
| no because of sexual fetish | 21.0% (63) |
293 voters answered this question.
How likely are you to pee your pants again in the future?
| not at all | 10.0% (31) | |
| very | 12.0% (37) | |
| I hope not | 19.0% (60) | |
| probaly | 16.0% (51) | |
| definately | 21.0% (66) | |
| I will because of sexual fetish | 18.0% (57) |
302 voters answered this question.
please reply in the "talk about this poll" area expressing how you felt about your accidents & leave dtails if you wish
| yes | 25.0% (71) | |
| no | 39.0% (113) | |
| maybe later | 34.0% (99) |
283 voters answered this question.
Message board
good idea?
wetting and messing the bed
http://www.misterpoll.com/343274224.html
accidentally, on purpose!
i wet the bed now and then, but don't think i have ever done so accidentlally!
i think i've maybe had five pants-wetting accidents, and hundreds more times that were not accidents.
i've never wet my pants in front of a woman, but some women have seen me with wet pants.
of course, i seldom wear anything, and when the urge appears, i may step outside or let it go on myself.
if others are around me and need to go, i try to get them to go either on or in me, in a container, or in their clothes if they are dressed or on themselves if they are naked.
btw, i'm male, 45-55.
stay wet all!
Adult wetting accidents 2
I would appreciate it if you all would participate in my poll on this same subject: Misterpoll.com/717814105.html
Thanks
The Leaker
Adult peeing accidents
I am now an elderly male but in my teens and twenties I had a bunch of wetting accidents. There were two reasons for these accidents: 1. I was sure that I was entirely in absolute control of my body. 2. I thought it was the height of uncool to admit that one, who is in control of his body, has to go to the bathroom.
Frequent accidents between 12 and 30 years of age finally convinced me that I wasn't in control and that an occasional "I gotta go pee," was warranted. Actually I've been dry since age 26.
I never peed myself on purpose and all of my accidents were the most humiliating events of my life. I may pee myself again as I understand that it is a problem of the elderly but it will not be for the reasons I did so in my youth.
The leaker
bedwetting
i am married and still wet the bed and have accidents in my pants some times. My wife spanks me when i have these accidents
Peed while tickled
Was trying on a sweater that was too small for me. I had it pulled up over my head with my arms stuck over my head. I called for my husband to help me get it off. When he came in he pushed me down on the bed, sat on me and proceeded to tickle me to death! He started at my waist and worked his way upwards. By the time he got to my armpits I was in hysterics. I was screaming "I'm going to pee!!!" but he kept on tickling and tickling. I was absolutely stuck and I couldn't hold it any longer so I peed myself and all over the bed.
Peeing my pants nappy
I am a diabetic so i pee a lot. When i go out i wear a nappy, i love to pee myself on purpose. if i am in home and wearing pants i wait as long as i can then rush to the toilet most times peeing my pants as i go there.
Do you pee on purpose?
Husband Wets Pants/Bed when sick
I never wet my pants, but my husband does sometimes, mostly when sick with a cold or flu. The poor guy gets so embarrassed about the accidents, but it's obvious he can't help it! He always wants to try going without diapers at the first sign of illness, and I agree, knowing that it's inevitable that he'll pee in his jammies sooner or later. If he's really focusing on getting to the potty, he'll get there the first time or two. But he seems to go from not having to go to an emergency when sick, and he'll eventually tell me that he had an accident. He's so ashamed when he tells me, he can't even look at me. I then require him to wear a diaper until he feels better. I have to say, I think he looks pretty cute in his diaper :)
It's actually really cute if he's been sick for three days or more and will have accidents after he's feeling better, like he got a bit dependant on the diapers. We were at Blockbuster last time (maybe 6 months ago?) this happened and I saw him marching in place and holding himself. I giggled to myself and continued to watch. Pretty soon it got frantic and I finally saw the light bulb go off in his head that he needed to go potty. He turned to me, I pretended I wasn't watching, and he told me he needed to go potty. I looked down at his crotch and saw it was already really wet. He didn't even realize until he was wet!! He'd spent six days sick in diapers, so the poor guy was like a cute little 2-year-old trying to potty train. I said "Uh-oh, let's get to the potty." I grabbed his hand and tried to rush him to the bathroom, but it was too late by the time we got there. We still got the movie we came in for, but he walked right behind me the rest of the way to the counter and the car. Then during the movie I saw him squirming in his jammies. He was sitting on my couch, so I didn't want him to wet it. I asked him if he needed to go potty, and he said yes and ran to the potty, but when he came back, it was clear he didn't make it on time. It was really cute how he lied when I asked him if he had an accident, then when I checked his pants with my hand and asked why they were wet, he said he dried his hands on them. They were drenched from his crotch past his knees :) LOL
When he wets his diaper when sick, he's good about telling me before he changes, but he's ashamed about it. When he's really sick with the flu, I offer to change his diaper but he refuses. I'm sure he'd feel real grown up about that :)
Peeing accidents for guys!!
peeing accidents for guys during parties or embarrassing situations:
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