Bladder Control

Getting an erection is a good way to help control yourself if you have to go real bad. But don't $%!@ in your pants, cause when you get soft and the wet feeling in your pants your liable to go in your pants.

The last two replies are sick and do not belong in this discussion.

First of all it is a known fact that women can hold pee longer then men. Women actually have stronger splincher muscles then men, but the problem most women hold there need to pee for too long. Therefore in excitement, when there is a real scare a girl is more likely to pee in her pants and a guy is more likely to poop. Since women are smaller, their bladder is slightly smaller then a male, but she uses more of her capacity, so a liter coke will effect a girl more then a guy. However when push comes to shove a girl can pee with the best of men, and in most cases beat a guy in distance and accuracy. The real problem is that most girls are used to sit down toilets and do not practice the art of peeing while standing. So it is actually our fault that we give the illusion that that girls are the weaker sex and cannot do our peeing outside, when in reality most girls can pee more better, more accurate then any guy.

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In general you may be right. Just like the occasional woman who beats a guy in sports, it is rare but it does happen that women who are generally the weakler sex when strength is concerned does beat a man. But in general I still claim that a woman can aim just as good as a man. Now I am talking about a coffee can placed in front of a woman standing to pee. Not a great distance where a woman's pee stream is distorted. But in everyday living a woman can use a urinal, pee in a can, just as well as a guy. And with her lips open she does not have to wipe, and rarely ever drips. Also women seem so have a better pain tolerance then men, which means that in the end a woman can hold urine just as well as a man. Yes our splincher is smaller and often much weaker, but with practice, and kegel exercises woman can hold there pee very well. And as a last resort can use the finger in the kike method. And often you mention that women live longer then men, but without a prostate women can live without urinary problems til the very end, ok with occasional leaks, but that is better then a prostrate. So women live longer, have no prostrate, have better pain tollerence, can pee further then men in most cases. So what is your problem. The sexes are different, each with their own advantages, but in general the urinary design of the female is not a disadvantage. And the fact that it is seperated from our sexual organs actually gives females the advantage. So what if we sometimes pee more, get occasional urinary infections, we do not wind up with prostrate cancer which is twice as common as breast cancer.

Hi Dr Carter Hope your research is going well; I ran a similar survey http://www.misterpoll.com/poll.mpl?id=3709292245 a couple of years ago. Unfortunately I had to give up my course to look after an elderly relative. I hoped MisterPoll would give me access to more in information from my survey, like access to the answers for each participant, but found that wasn’t possible. Here are my answers: I am 26-30, I live in Europe (West country of England) I have the full triumvirate of sudden urge to urinate, limited ability to hold it leading to leakages and of course stress incontinence (laughing, sneezing, coughing etc, are all likely to lead to at least small accidents) During my pregnancy I was wearing an adult nappy day and night from 3 months gone, to cope with the frequency and volume of accidents, in the last month I got to stage were I pretty much gave up even trying to get to the loo, because from the first urge to being in full flow was often a matter of minutes. I tend to alcohol intake, as it only takes a few drinks for me to get the stage where a full on accident is an inevitability. I unconsciously avoid things like horror films because a fright or surprise can make me let a short dribble of urine out. At what age did you first experience a loss of control? Well the category I want isn’t really there, I’ve always really had bladder control issues, as a girl I was one of those children who’d wet themselves now and then, not so unusual in the pre-teen years I remember many of my friends having an occasional accident when they’d leave a visit to the loo a bit long because they were having too much fun or at school or on car trips where access to a toilet was denied. But what was for them at worst a few times a year, for me was almost daily. Of course as I got older the accidents became less severe, those times where as an 8 year old I’d be leaving a puddle on the ground, by 11 became just a pair of wet knickers by the time I got to the toilet. As teenager I was the only person I knew who wet anything other than a small bit more than once a year, and certainly the only to one to completely wet herself in class in the final year of school! Have you ever experienced Enurisis?(Bedwetting) I was a nightly bedwetter til 11, 3 or 4 times a week til 14 or 15, and still wet the bed as an adult 6 or 7 times a year, it was worse during and after pregnancy. There are also nights or mornings where I wake up bursting to go or having started to go a bit, but usually make it to the toilet and only have to change my knickers or PJ’s With what frequency have any Bladder control issues occured? Daily I have small leaks may be 3 or 4 times. Hardly a week goes by without at least one full accident (luckily they’re rarely public) If more that 10 times in your life, what, if any, precautions do you take? Daily I wear the largest Tena or Poise pad, on important occasions or I am going somewhere where I can’t be sure of finding a loo quickly I wear Poise pants or Molicare Mobile. As I said I wore nappies during pregnancy, I also wear them if I’m staying in a hotel or in a friend’s bed, just in case. Have you tried Kegal exercises? Over the years I’ve tried them but they make no difference. H e l e n r e e s @ l o n d o n . c o m

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Once I was on a float in a parade. I had drunk several cokes, and I had to go so bad, I was afraid I'd bust my bladder, so I peed in my pants. No one saw because of my costume, but my sister saw at home and told everyone.

The most desperate I.ve ever been was at an outdoor concert about 10 years ago. I was with a big group (mixed guys and girls). We had managed tsmuggle some beer in , and were drinking heavily. I had to make several trips to the portapotties, and the lines were very long. I barely made it once and they were getting more discusting with each trip. On my last trip, my girlfriend and I went together. The line was impossibly long. We had seen a few other girls already who appeared to have wet theirselves, and one guy also. We had been in line for about 15 minutes and the line was moving very slow. My friend said "I can't hold it any longer" and wet her pants. I watched her and then told her, "I'm going to do it too", and I did. From then on until the concert was over we just peed in our panties when we had to go. Some of the other girls in our little group did the same, as did one of the boys.

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It's unfair for boys to pee where girls can't. If boys and girls are out together and need to go, no one should go until you find a place where both can go. If the boys decide to do it beside the car they should have to pull their pants down like girls. That's fair.

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i have to peeee soooooooooo bad right now. I have been holding it for hours because i have been on this sight. I pressed ramdom poll and this i what came up. I would like to just wet my pants, but i live with my parents and a brother, they would all find out if i did. what would i do with my wet clothes, how can i experimant more with wetting, without my parents finding out, because they are like always home..also, how do i find out if my friends like wetting without sounding crazy?

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