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Bashful Bladder -- Men
Do you have trouble peeing in public?
Which of the following describes you.
Which of the following applies to you?
- Impossible to pee, even if I suspect someone is around.
- I can pee only if I am sure the people behind my back are not paying any attention.
- I always go in the stall and pretend I have to do #2, too.
- It's easier to pee in front of a woman than a man.
- It's easier to pee in front of a man than a woman.
- Even peeing in front of a small child is difficult.
- It's easier if other men are peeing openly at the same time.
- When I pee in a toilet, I aim for the sides so nobody can hear me.
- There are a few people I trust enough to pee in front of them, but not very many.
- I can pee in front of my wife/gf, but usually not in front of anyone else.
- I have told my wife/gf about this problem.
- I don't have bashful bladder---I can pee anywhere, anytime.
If you have bashful bladder, how long have you been aware of it?
- All my life.
- Since before I was 8 years old.
- Since before I was 12 years old.
- Since before I was 16 years old.
- It started after age 16.
- I can pee anywhere, any time.
Have you ever discussed this with your wife/gf?
- Yes, and she was supportive and helped me get over it.
- Yes, and she teased me and did not help.
- No, I was too embarrassed.
- I can pee anywhere.
Have you ever discussed this with any other friend?
- Yes, and it helped.
- Yes, and it did not help.
- No.
- I can pee anywhere.
What about professional help?
- No, not a sufficiently serious disorder.
- No, but I probably should.
- Yes, I tried therapy, but it was no help.
- Yes, I tried thereapy and it did help.
- I can pee anywhere.
Have you ever avoided a social event because you knew you might have to pee?
- Yes, I avoid going to places where there is a public toilet.
- Yes, I avoid doing things with close friends.
- Yes, I avoid having intimate/sexual relationships because of bashbul bladder.
- No, I pretty much do everything and find a way around it.
- I can pee anywhere.
Can you attribute your bashful bladder to having been humiliated as a child?
- Yes, by schoolmates.
- Yes, by family.
- Yes, by friends of different age group.
- Yes, by sports-mates in locker room, etc.
- No, I cannot associae it with any such experience.
Do you think women also experience Bashful Bladder?
- Yes, for sure.
- Yes, to a lesser extent.
- Probably, but I don't know.
- Probably not.
- No.
Are you circumcised?
- Yes, and I have bashful bladder.
- No and I have bashful bladder.
- Yes and I can pee anywhere.
- No and I can pee anywhere.
During puberty, did you masturbate just about every day?
- Yes, and I have bashful bladder.
- No, and I have gashful bladder.
- Yes, and I can pee anywhere.
- No, and I can pee anywhere.
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Help for Pee Shy / Bashful Bladder
grow some balls!!
This must be written by an American, in the rest of the world men aren't made to feel ashamed to relieve themselves around others. Many rest rooms are still unisex, where women walk past urinals to use a stall or urinal troughs are outside the rest room alltogether. On a train platform men often pee onto the tracks while waiting or stop while crossing a bridge to pee into a river. Guys this is normal. Guys unable to pee in front of their wives and girlfriends, What???
i accualy hold off my pee when in public if sumone is there
i always when i go to the washrrom and there is sumon ethere i leave and hold it or if i am at the urnal when sumone comes in i pretend im just finished even thow i just got there i don't use the stall because pple can here me pee so i lve and hold it i wet my pants alot do to this but i don't like to be around other guys well i go pee